Do you feel like the only person in the house that tackles the housework? According to the CLR Chore Wars Survey, nearly half of kids admit they'll do anything to get out of doing chores, despite parents' best efforts to encourage the entire family to help around the house. Plus, half of parents admit they spend just as much time arguing with their children about chores as they spend doing them.
To help parents avoid these battles, CLR is partnering with parenting expert Dr. Michele Borba to turn some of the conventional wisdom about chores on its head and provide families with practical, solution-based strategies to strengthen communication and cooperation when tackling household chores.
Chores Are Not Punishments
More than forty percent of kids reported that parents have "taken away a valued possession" as a strategy to getting them to help with chores. Kids were also three times as likely as parents to say that parents have used chores as a form of punishment (37 percent verses 13 percent). Contrary to how most parents present chores, Borba says to make cleaning less of a "chore" or punishment and more of a family activity.
"Assign a room, hand out cleaning supplies, set a buzzer for five minutes and then dash to your designated area to clean things 'spick and span' before the timer goes off," said child psychologist Dr. Michele Borba. "Kids love to try and 'beat the clock' and you'll have the house back in order in minutes!"
No one knows this better than Alison Gutterman, president of Jelmar, LLC, the company that created the CLR brand of cleaners. As the third generation to run the family business, Gutterman has seen firsthand the struggles that parents encounter. Gutterman, a firm believer in listening to consumers through extensive research, created CLR Chore Wars as a way to make a parent's life just a little easier.
"As a mom and woman business owner, I understand how maintaining a home can be a strain on a family," says Alison Gutterman, president of Jelmar, LLC. "That's why we teamed up with Dr. Borba to shed national spotlight on the issues surrounding chores and offer simple solutions to keep parents and children happy and their homes spick and span! "
"Part of a 60-year-old family business dedicated to clean, CLR Cleaners help families with their toughest cleaning needs – from making kitchens sparkle to convincing children to help with chores," adds Gutterman.
Dr. Borba also tells parents that the earlier you expect your kids to take an active role in helping around the house, the easier you'll find it is to get them to lend a hand. Borba states, "Even kids as young as three can help out! Though it's never too late for basic training, it's sure easier to begin earlier."
Kids admit that they aren't as helpful as they could be around the house, with six in 10 kids admitting they don't typically help with chores unless their parents ask them to.
"It's important to regulate chore requirements for younger kids so they're not overwhelmed," says Borba. "Distribute chores so little kids and bigger family members are assigned responsibilities aimed at their ability and everyone is contributing their fair share."
One study found if kids weren't taught how to do the chore by a parent they usually gave up in frustration. (1) Introducing each task by using three steps is simple but important. Teach: Go through the task as you explain each step so your child knows what to do; Supervise: Now watch him to ensure he can handle the job. Inspect: Your child does the chore independently, but knows to anticipate a surprise inspection from you to ensure he's succeeding at the level you expect.
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